Irrational Loyalty By Deb Gabor

By Joanna Walker, CEO & Founder of Loyalty & Co.

At Loyalty & Co, we’re always on the lookout for insights that deepen our understanding of customer loyalty. This month, we’re reading Irrational Loyalty by Deb Gabor, a fascinating exploration of the emotional connections that shape our relationships with brands. Deb Gabor’s book resonates with our core belief that true loyalty isn’t just about transactions—it’s personal, enduring, and rooted in shared values.

A Fresh Take on Brand Loyalty

In Irrational Loyalty, Deb Gabor argues that brand loyalty is much more than a rational choice; it’s a deeply emotional connection, akin to the bonds we share in personal relationships. Using her “Brand Values Pyramid,” Deb Gabor demonstrates how brands can connect with customers on a profound level by aligning with who they are and what they care about most. This pyramid emphasizes that loyalty stems not just from products but from the values and purpose a brand represents.

Building Trust and Belonging

Through her model, Deb Gabor illustrates that successful brands create a sense of belonging and trust by leading with their purpose. For companies, this means stepping beyond merely satisfying customer needs to developing a shared identity and purpose that clients feel personally invested in. These insights align with Loyalty & Co’s approach to loyalty program design: every strategy is crafted to reflect our client’s values and foster lasting customer connections.

Why Irrational Loyalty Matters

Deb Gabor’s work speaks to Loyalty Managers, Marketing Executives, CEOs, and anyone committed to building genuine, lasting relationships with their customers. In a world where customer expectations are high and choices are abundant, Irrational Loyalty serves as a reminder that loyalty is less about what customers buy and more about how brands make them feel. By “showing up” for customers in a way that feels authentic and personal, brands can cultivate a loyalty that withstands time and competition.

For those seeking to build brands that are truly loved, Irrational Loyalty is an invaluable guide. It’s a book that inspires us at Loyalty & Co to keep the human element at the heart of everything we do, building programs that go beyond transactions to create relationships that last a lifetime.

If you’re interested in exploring the power of emotional brand connections, we highly recommend giving this book a read. To learn more about our approach to loyalty and customer connections, visit our Work With Us page.